Season 2 Episode 16

Posted by Rope Squirrel | Posted in Advice, Opinion, Podcast, Rope Squirrel | Posted on 12-18-2015

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Season 2 Episode 16 | 2015 to 2016 Transition

Well.. it is finally here! The last episode of 2015. This week I just don’t have time to get to the questions, but… I do cover vanilla perceptions of our kinky world. This will be my last episode of 2015. I shall return in early 2016 with more interviews and more kinkiness. So stay tuned and we’ll see you on the other side! The kink must continue!

Season 2 Episode 16 | BDSM in the new year

 

Music for this week:

Parallel World by Platinum Butterfly (c) 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license.

Season 2 Episode 14

Posted by Rope Squirrel | Posted in Advice, Podcast, Rope Squirrel | Posted on 11-04-2015

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Season 2 Episode 14

Season 2 Episode 14

This week, I discuss a the differences between play relationships and relationships, I read a listener comment from the last show, and I answer the questions below:

  • I’m brand new to the community and the lifestyle. What are some things that I can do so that people take me seriously? What are some pitfalls I should avoid?
  • I am traveling to another place far away from my normal scene. How can I get involved withe local community and not feel like an outsider? Should I even bother?
  • Where is a good place to get toys?

 

The song I used is this:

Universe of Music by snowflake (c) 2014 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. Ft: CSoul, Copperhead

Season 2 Episode 13

Posted by Rope Squirrel | Posted in Advice, Announcements, Opinion, Podcast, Rope Squirrel | Posted on 10-22-2015

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Season 2 Episode 13

Season 2 Episode 13 | Shy personThis week we have several topics to tackle. The biggest however is what constitutes normal in the kink scene. We reference a post on Fetlife, however, for privacy, we won’t be linking directly to it (plus it’s been taken down).

 

  • My Boyfriend is into lactation, he wants to get me pregnant so that he can indulge in that fantasy. I think it’s sick and wrong. Can’t I find someone who is just “normal”?
  • When new people enter the community, one of the first things they need is guidance and safe friends. Is it possible to relate with people who are just coming into the community when you’ve been in it for a while?
  • My girlfriend really wants to put me into chastity. I’m not really sure about it though. Are there any risks associated with long term chastity?

 

Announcement, Rope_Squirrel, in his alter ego, will be presenting at Sin in the City 2016. However, that means there may be some opportunity for interviews in Vegas.

Season 2 Episode 12

Posted by Rope Squirrel | Posted in Opinion, Podcast, Rope Squirrel | Posted on 10-02-2015

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Season 2 Episode 12

Season 2 Episode 12 | Polyamory

Topic for this week:

Toxic people in the community. We talk about how to make sure that your kink life isn’t filled with drama.

Questions this week:

  1. I am a single guy, I feel really odd when I attend play parties. Partly because I don’t have anyone to play with but mostly because I feel everyone is judging me to be the creepy guy. Is it OK that I attend parties?
  2. I want to meet more kinky girls, where are some of the best places to look? Should I use non-kink sites like Match.com or Tinder?
  3. Are poly relationships worth the hassle? I’ve been conversing with this guy who is poly and wants to bring me into the relationship. Am I opening a huge can of worms here?

Until November 7th I’ll be in the Ontario province of Canada. If you are interested in being on the show and are in that area, feel free to hit me up. We’d love to have locals on the show.

Season 2 Episode 12 | Canada Leaf

Season 2 Episode 11

Posted by Rope Squirrel | Posted in Announcements, News, Podcast, Rope Squirrel | Posted on 09-18-2015

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Season 2 Episode 11

PonyHugNo | Season 2 Episode 11

 

This week we discuss the NCSF Consent violation survey.

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Then we answer your questions:

  1. My girlfriend wants to have open relationship, I’m not sure I’m OK with that, but I honestly don’t know how to feel. Where can I go to get more information?
  2. So I am in love with this girl, but she seems uninterested in me when this other person is around. When He isn’t around, she is all over me. Am I in trouble?

 

Resources mentioned in the show:

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Maple Leaf | Season 2 Episode 11Also, for the next 45 days (Sept 24th – Nov 7th), Rope_Squirrel will be in Canada. Fear not though, we are making him bring his recording equipment so the show will go on.

 

Season 2 Episode 10

Posted by Rope Squirrel | Posted in Advice, Interview, Opinion, Podcast, Rope Squirrel | Posted on 09-03-2015

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Season 2 Episode 10

Season 2 Episode 10 | Romeo and Juliet, the tale of two clubs

This episode features an interview with a Detroit munch organizer and community leader, I talk about bridging gaps between groups and we answer questions about collars, strange fetishes and negotiations.

Season 2 Episode 9

Posted by Rope Squirrel | Posted in Advice, Opinion, Podcast, Rope Squirrel | Posted on 08-19-2015

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Season 2 Episode 9

Season 2 Episode 9 | Volunteers

This week, I give a shout out to volunteers and event organizers everywhere

 

I also take your calls like these:

  • I just got involved with a new partner, but he isn’t into kink. I’ve been doing kink forever and would like to share in my experiences with him, if not have him embrace them. How do I broach this topic and let him know my desires,.
  • I’ve never played before I’m about to do so for the first time, what should my first type of play be
  • Sex really doesn’t appeal to me. I’ve just never enjoyed it. BDSM though I do enjoy. That is what really excites me. My current partner wants to have sex while we play. I am not really into that idea though. How do I tell her I am, not interested.

In the next weeks, I’ll be doing 1-2 out-of-state interviews and then a local one. Look forward to it.

Kink in the Chain – Call for shout outs

Posted by Rope Squirrel | Posted in Announcements | Posted on 08-12-2015

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Call for shout outs

As part of a new segment we’d like to put on Kink in the Chain, each episode, I’d like to feature a club, event, organization, podcast, whatever. This is separate from the patreon campaign. Each spot will only be featured once. Ideally, if you’d like to record a 30 second spot that would be ideal, but contact us and we’d be happy to call you and record it.

Here are just some examples:

  • Feature your party
  • Give a shout out to an exceptional kinkster
  • Promote an upcoming event

As a note, this is not a spot that will be used for product advertisement. Therefore any requests to feature such an item will not be granted. We want to celebrate all that is kink around the world.

Season 2 Episode 8

Posted by Rope Squirrel | Posted in Advice, Interview, Opinion, Podcast, Rope Squirrel | Posted on 08-06-2015

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Season 2 Episode 8

Season 2 Episode 8 | Race Bannon at Southwest Leather Conference Keynote

 

This week, I want to start off by sharing with you a keynote I got to hear in person at Southwest Leather Conference 2014. It was given by Race Bannon and quite honestly, it was life changing to me. In case it ever goes offline, I’ll make a page for it:

Next, I interview Paul Rulof about his book Power Over Pleasure: A Training Program for Female Orgasms By Vocal Command. It was interesting to talk about this topic.

Season 2 Episode 8 | Paul Rulof

Finally, we take your calls and answer them (Paul and I both answered them)

  • I like to think I am good in bed, but sometimes my Girlfriend just cannot achieve Orgasm. I think I’m doing all the right things, I’m stimulating both the clit and the internal bits, but I just can’t seem to do it? What can I do to help this process along? – Spelunker
  • When my girlfriend orgasms, it tends to be several in a row and then it stops. Is there any way to keep her riding the wave? – MultiO
  • How can I tell if my Girlfriend is faking her orgasm? I mean, I don’t think she is, but how can I be sure? – RealorFake

 

As a side note, I am getting more interviews together in the upcoming weeks. Expect those!

BDSM Statement Featured in Republican Platform

Posted by Rope Squirrel | Posted in News | Posted on 07-29-2015

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BDSM Statement Featured in Republican Platform | GOP Anti BDSM

With 16 Republicans already announced as vying for the 2016 Presidential nomination, a group has some up with a list of positions that all Republicans are expected to accept as part of their official platform.

The Conservative Values Coalition has, for the first time, specified BDSM, Kink, and Fetishism on their list of activities that are “Practiced Privately and Denied Publicly.”

The document details kinks and fetishes that should be “publicly ridiculed” and encouraged the use of words like “freaks, weirdos, perverts, and abominations” to describe practitioners, yet permitted candidates to engage in kinky activity “as long as they don’t get caught.”

Another provision specified in the document was “nothing in the butt,” as that crosses the line from being “merely kinky” into “full blown gayness.”

Washington insiders speculate that such restrictions may be aimed at Ted Cruz who, for years, has been known in Washington kink circles for his love of enema play.

“It is going to be hard for Cruz to keep away from the butt,” one prominent Lobbyist said, “but if you want to be President, you have to prove you are willing to be a hypocrite and this is a good opportunity for Ted to step up.”

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